You’ve done the research. You still don’t know where to start.

Here’s the plan. One weekend, and you’re ready.

The Beginner’s Guide to Homeschooling and the Homeschool Starter Workbook take you from research to ready.

By the end you’ll have:

  • Your approach chosen: the method that fits your family.
  • Your curriculum picked for your child, not from a blanket “best of” list.
  • A plan for the real roadblocks: criticism, a spouse who isn’t sure, teaching more than one kid at once.
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“I pulled Tashi out in the middle of COVID. I wanted so badly to make it work but I had no idea what I was doing. Most days I felt like I was failing him. I wish something like this had existed then. This is exactly what I was desperate for and couldn’t find.”

Marina R., TorontoPulled her 9-year-old out of private school mid-year

The more you read, the worse it gets.

Tabs you’ll never close. Reddit threads from 2019. Three different mom influencers who all say something different. A folder of curriculum PDFs you keep meaning to read. A YouTube history full of “day in the life” homeschool moms.

You’ve put in the hours. You’ve read the blogs and the books and the threads. And somehow you are more overwhelmed than when you started.

Your child’s first day is getting closer. Or you’ve already pulled them out and the days feel longer than you expected.

Underneath all of it is the fear you don’t say out loud.

That your child will fall behind, and it will be your fault. That your child won’t have friends. That you can’t manage more than one of them at once. That homeschooling is something other moms can pull off, but maybe not you.

Here’s the thing: the problem isn’t that you can’t homeschool. The problem is that you don’t have a starting plan. And that one is solvable.

What changes with a starting plan

You stop opening new tabs.

You know what to teach: reading, math, and language arts at your child’s level. You know what curriculum to consider and what to skip. You know what your first eight weeks look like, what to do when your child resists, and how to handle the question your in-laws are about to ask.

You start to feel you can really pull this off.

You don’t finish with more information. You finish with a plan.

By the time you finish the Guide and Workbook, you will have:

  • Chosen your approach
  • Identified your child’s starting level
  • Chosen your curriculum
  • Built your weekly rhythm
  • Built your daily rhythm
  • Planned your first 30 days
  • Set up your record keeping
  • Written down what you’re going to do

That’s the difference between owning a homeschool book and having a homeschool.

Real pages from both books

The opening page of Chapter 2, The Quickstart Plan
Where to startTen phases, in order, not a reading list.
The opening page of Chapter 30, Is My Child Going to Be Weird
The questions that keep you upAnswered plainly, with no sales pitch.
Worksheet 14, a quiz for choosing a math curriculum
Worksheets you fill inPrompts and choices, not blank lines.
Worksheet 32, a one-page summary of your homeschool plan
Your whole plan on one pageEvery decision, gathered in one place.

These four pages are from the Guide and Workbook. The free sample has four different ones.

See exactly what you’re getting

Two books. 36 chapters. 33 worksheets. One starting plan.

The Guide: 36 chapters

Your reference for the whole first year and beyond. Includes a clear starting plan, a non-preachy, evidence-based explanation of how children actually learn, and practical chapters on reading, math, language arts, socialization, motivation, and homeschooling multiple kids. Curriculum recommendations cover both secular and faith-friendly families.

Part I Getting Started
1. Introduction. How to use the Guide and what to read first.
2. The Quickstart Plan. A concrete step-by-step plan to start without overwhelm. The chapter most beta readers say they wish someone had handed them on day one.
3. What to Ignore in the First 30 Days. The list of things you can safely skip while you find your footing.
4. The Transition Between School and Homeschool. For moms pulling a child out mid-year. Deschooling and the first two weeks.
Part II Setting Up Your Homeschool
5. The Home Learning Environment. How to set up a space that supports learning.
6. Structure & Routine. How to build a daily rhythm that actually fits your family.
7. Routine Examples. Sample weeks for different family types: multi-kid, single child, mixed ages.
8. Homeschooling Multiple Children. How to teach two or three or more at once without losing your mind.
9. Designing a Homeschool That Works for You. How to shape your homeschool around your family, your work, and your child, not someone else’s template.
10. Record Keeping. How to keep records and what to track from week one.
Part III Choosing Your First Curriculum
11. Start Here: How to Choose Your First Curriculum. Without burning out on options.
12. The Three Main Types of Homeschool Programs. Traditional, online, and all-in-one. What each one is and who it fits.
13. Pedagogical Approaches to Homeschooling. Classical, Charlotte Mason, Montessori, Waldorf, unschooling, unit studies, worldschooling, and more, explained without jargon so you can pick your starting frame.
14. Curriculum for Ages 2–5. What preschool actually needs (less than you think).
15. Math Curricula. Explanations of math curricula and specific recommendations for various approaches.
16. Understanding and Planning Language Arts. What language arts actually is and how to plan it.
17. Language Arts Curricula. Specific recommendations for phonics-heavy, comprehensive, and writing-focused programs. Both secular and faith-friendly options.
18. Science Curricula. Both secular and faith-friendly options.
19. History Curricula. Both secular and faith-friendly options.
20. All-in-One Curricula. When to consider an all-in-one and which ones might be a fit for your family.
21. Online Programs and Digital Academies. When to consider them. Which ones are worth it.
22. Funding Homeschooling. Funding options by state and scholarship recommendations.
23. Quick Curricula Picks. Concrete starting recommendations by age, for when you’ve read the whole Guide and still feel stuck.
Part IV Teaching & Learning
24. How Children Learn. Research-informed, with citations. Calm. No “neuroscience says” platitudes. Just the actual research moms ask about.
25. Teaching Reading. How children actually learn to read and how to support that at home.
26. Teaching Mathematics. How children actually learn math and how to support that at home.
27. Motivation & Resistance. What to do when your child won’t engage. How to read it and how to respond.
28. Assessment & Progress Monitoring. Ongoing informal assessment, placement tests, and how to use standardized testing only when it’s actually useful.
Part V Common Questions & Concerns
29. Socialization. The question your family will ask. How to answer it without getting defensive.
30. Is My Child Going to Be Weird? The stereotype, where it came from, and what’s actually true.
31. How Do I Know I’m Doing This Right? Signals to look for and what to ignore.
32. Will My Child Fall Behind? The fear most moms refuse to say out loud. What the research actually shows.
33. Will My Child Be Able to Graduate High School? The actual answer for homeschool families.
34. Can My Child Go to University? The actual answer for college-bound homeschool families and which schools actively recruit homeschoolers.
35. How Do I Handle Criticism About Homeschooling? What to say to the skeptics, and how to stop needing their approval.
36. Do You Need to Be a Teacher to Homeschool? The short answer, and why the job is smaller than you fear.

The Workbook: 33 worksheets

The companion to the Guide. Worksheets, flowcharts, and curriculum-picking quizzes that turn the Guide’s ideas into decisions you make for your family. Includes the 15-Minute Reading Plan, Math Placement Quiz, Language Arts Flow Chart, and weekly schedule templates.

Part I Getting Started
WS 1. Homeschool Values Worksheet
WS 2. 30-Day Focus Worksheet
WS 3. Transition Reflection Worksheet
WS 4. Letter of Intent Template
Part II Setting Up Your Homeschool
WS 5. Designing Your Homeschool Around You
WS 6. Planning Your Weekly Rhythm Worksheet
WS 7. Designing Your Daily Rhythm
WS 8. Your Child's Independent Work Planner
WS 9. Interruptions Plan
WS 10. Weekly Review Worksheet
Part III Choosing Your First Curricula
WS 11. Which Curriculum Path Should I Choose?
WS 12. Side-by-Side Curriculum Comparison
WS 13. Curriculum Evaluation Sheet
WS 14. Quiz: Your Starting Math Curriculum
WS 15. Two Flow Charts: Picking an LA Curriculum
WS 16. Two Question Science Curriculum Quiz
WS 17. Two Question History Curriculum Quiz
WS 18. Budget Planner
Part IV Teaching & Learning
WS 19. Reading Assessment
WS 20. The 15 Minute Reading Plan
WS 21. Math Assessment
WS 22. The 15 Minute Math Plan
WS 23. Understanding Resistance & Building Ownership
Part V Common Questions & Concerns
WS 24. Socialization Planning Worksheet
WS 25. 90 Day Check In
WS 26. Where's This Kid Headed?
WS 27. High School Planning Worksheet
WS 28. University Planning Worksheet
WS 29. Senior Year Application Checklist
WS 30. Homeschool Objections Worksheet
WS 31. When Your Spouse Isn't Sure Worksheet
Wrap-Up Putting It All Together
WS 32. Your Master Plan
WS 33. Learning Log
Bonus. Your No-Pressure Plan for Ages 3–5

Both are digital downloads (PDF). Read on any device. Print what you want. Yours forever, plus all future updates free.

Try a free sample

From Chapter 32: Will My Child Fall Behind?

This is the question every homeschool parent gets from a relative within the first six months. It is also the question that wakes some parents up at 2 a.m.

“Behind” usually means underperforming on standardized tests or grade-level standards, but it can also mean behind on the unspoken expectations of family or community.

In the available research, homeschooled kids do as well as or better than classroom kids on standardized tests. But the real picture is more nuanced, and more reassuring, than the headline numbers suggest.

The opening page of Chapter 32, Will My Child Fall Behind
The chapter above, as it appears in the sample.

The free sample includes:

  • A breakdown of the most popular beginner math curriculum
  • A side-by-side math curriculum comparison
  • The full chapter above, with the research on whether homeschoolers fall behind
  • A workbook worksheet
  • The Introduction

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What other moms are saying

“Valentina, this is spectacular. What a wonderful resource for homeschool moms! This will save busy moms so much time and stress. Thank you.”

Roslyn RossAuthor and Veteran Homeschool Mom of 4

“Without this guide, I’d have had to watch anecdotal YouTube videos about each curriculum and do extensive research. This is the single best resource for me.”

Anji Z., Boston

“It isn’t prescriptive. These are the options, for you to make the most informed decision on what’s best for your family. The charts and recommendations made it easy to choose.”

Jenna T., ChathamMom of one

Who this is for. Who it isn’t.

This is for you if you are:

  • Considering homeschooling and want to understand what it actually looks like before you commit.
  • In your first year of homeschooling and still feeling very lost.
  • A parent pulling your child out of school mid-year and you need a plan ASAP.
  • A working or work-from-home parent trying to homeschool around your job, not instead of it.
  • A parent whose child needs more flexibility than school can provide.
  • Religious or secular. The Guide offers faith-friendly and secular curricula because it's faith neutral.
  • Someone who has been researching for weeks or months and just wants a structured plan to follow.

This is not for you if:

  • You are an experienced homeschooler. You have already figured this out. The Guide is for the first year.
  • You want a video course you can watch on autopilot. These are written books (at least for now). They expect you to read and to plan.
  • You want every curriculum on the market reviewed. The Guide describes and recommends the most common and well-respected curricula in a curated, digestible way. It is not an encyclopedia.

If you have already bought a curriculum and still do not feel ready to start, the Guide is the missing layer.

Val with her twins

My name’s Val, short for Valentina. I have a chemistry degree with honours from the University of Toronto. I was on track to do a PhD right after graduation, but I landed in tech instead, and now I’m home with my twin boys, Alexander and Adrian.

I was obsessed with homeschooling for years before my kids were born. When I went looking for a resource with all the information in one place, or even a clear starting plan, I couldn’t find one. So I did the research and built the Guide and Workbook.

I’m a curious mom who wrote down what I learned, so the next parent doesn’t have to start from scratch.

I built this for my own family. I hope it helps yours.

More about me and Homeschool Teacher Guide.

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The Guide and Workbook are designed to be used together.

Guide

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The full step-by-step guide. Everything you need to understand the approach, make the right decisions, and move forward with confidence.

  • A quickstart plan to begin without the overwhelm
  • Curriculum guidance for every subject, secular and faith-friendly
  • Teaching approaches (Charlotte Mason, Montessori, classical, and more) in plain English
  • How children learn to read and do math, with the research behind it
  • Researched answers on falling behind, socialization, and college
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Workbook

$29+ tax

Best used alongside the Guide to put the plan into action.

  • Curriculum-picking quizzes and side-by-side comparisons
  • Daily and weekly rhythm templates you fill in
  • A 15-minute reading plan and a 15-minute math plan
  • Worksheets for the hard parts: resistance, a hesitant spouse, handling criticism
  • Your Master Plan, everything in one place
  • A no-pressure plan for ages 3–5
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Common Questions

Can I really do this in one weekend?

Yes. But you probably won’t be able to read the whole guide or do the whole 33-worksheet workbook in one weekend. You can start with the Introduction & Start Here chapters to orient yourself. Then, all you really need from the guide to start is Chapter 2, the Quickstart Checklist. In the Workbook, you can either fill out the sheets to build Your Master Plan or do the Bonus Plan for PreK & K. I also have done-for-you curricula picks laid out in their own chapter. Use the rest of the Guide and Workbook as needed.

Do I need teaching experience?

No. The Guide is written for first-time homeschool parents. No background required. Everything in both books assumes you’re starting from scratch.

What ages does this cover?

From the time you start thinking about homeschooling. The Guide and Workbook focus on the K–8 years, with a dedicated chapter on pre-K and kindergarten for moms starting earlier, plus chapters on high school transition and college admissions for older kids if you need them.

What format is it?

PDF. Both the Guide and the Workbook arrive as PDFs you can read on any device, print, or annotate. No proprietary app, no subscription. A weekend to read front to back, or jump straight to the chapters you need.

Is this for religious or secular families?

Both. The Guide offers religious and secular curriculum options. It doesn't take a stance on which worldview is correct. Its purpose is to help you choose what options are aligned with your family's values.

Can I use this if I’m pulling my child out of school mid-year?

Yes. Chapter 4 is specifically about the transition. The Quickstart Checklist gets you started in days, not months.

Does it work for multiple kids?

Yes. Chapter 8 is dedicated to multi-child households, and the Workbook has worksheets that adapt to multiple children.

Does it cover homeschool laws in my state?

The Guide covers what records to keep and what most states ask for. For the requirements where you live, we publish a free guide for every state and every Canadian province, starting with how to withdraw your child from public school, which links to all fifty. For the binding legal text, hslda.org maintains a current state law database. Confirm the current requirements with HSLDA or your state’s Department of Education before you file anything.

Will the Guide be updated over time?

Yes. Ongoing updates as the homeschool space evolves and based on buyer feedback. Buyers get all updates free.

How does the refund work?

Read the first three chapters. If it doesn’t help, email me within 14 days and tell me what you needed that wasn’t there. I’ll refund you in full.

You don’t need another month of research.

The most reassuring thing I found: homeschooling doesn’t work because of a perfect curriculum or a teaching degree. It works because of one-on-one attention, instant feedback and lessons paced to your child. That’s the same thing that makes tutoring so powerful (Bloom, 1984; Hattie, 2009). And yes, it still applies if you have more than one child.

The most important thing is a parent who shows up, pays attention, and cares enough to do this thoughtfully. The fact that you’re here means you’re already all of those things.

Guide + Workbook$49 USD + tax
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Not ready? Start with the free Reading Assessment and see where your child is reading first.