Step 1: Understand your state requirements
Homeschooling is legal in all 50 states, but the requirements vary. Some states require you to file a notice of intent with the school district. Some require standardized testing at certain grade levels. A small number require portfolio reviews or annual assessments.
The fastest way to find your state’s specific requirements is to search for your state name plus “homeschool laws” — the Home School Legal Defense Association (HSLDA) and most state homeschool associations maintain up-to-date summaries. Read what applies to you, comply with it, and move on. Don’t let the research phase stretch into weeks.
For most families in most states, the legal process is straightforward: a letter of withdrawal and possibly a one-page notice of intent. It’s not complicated.
Step 2: Withdraw your child from school
Contact the school in writing to formally withdraw your child. Most districts have a standard process for this. You’ll typically notify the principal or school office, complete whatever paperwork they require, and request a copy of your child’s records — including transcripts, any assessment results, and records of any services they were receiving.
Keep this process matter-of-fact. Schools are accustomed to students withdrawing to homeschool. You don’t need to justify your decision or engage in extended discussion about it. Withdraw, collect the records, and move forward.
If your child has an IEP or receives special education services, review what you’re entitled to as a homeschooling family in your state before withdrawing, as services may change or require a separate process.
Step 3: Don’t overbuild your plan
The most common mistake at this stage is spending too much time planning before starting. Parents spend weeks researching curriculum, designing elaborate schedules, setting up dedicated school rooms, and ordering materials — and then feel overwhelmed before the first lesson.
Start with the minimum viable plan: a daily time for school, the core subjects, and basic materials for reading and math. That’s enough to begin. You can add structure, refine your approach, and expand your curriculum after you’ve spent a few weeks actually homeschooling. The experience of teaching your child will tell you more than any amount of pre-planning can.
The elaborate plan usually doesn’t survive contact with a real child anyway. Start simple and adjust from there.
Step 4: Focus on core subjects
In the first weeks, cover three subjects: reading, math, and writing. Nothing else is required. These are the foundations that every other academic subject builds on, and they’re sufficient for a complete, productive school day at most elementary ages.
Reading (priority)
Reading is the most important subject in any homeschool, and it’s the one that most directly affects how the rest of the day goes. A child who reads fluently navigates every other subject more easily. A child with a reading gap finds everything harder.
Make reading your first subject every day, while attention is fresh. If you’re not sure how to structure reading instruction — especially if your child is still learning to decode — the guide on how to teach a child to read at home covers the full sequence from phonics through fluency.
Math
Math needs daily practice to stay sharp. Start by reviewing what your child was working on at school, then continue from there at their actual level. Keep sessions short — fifteen to thirty minutes depending on age — and focused. A sequential workbook or simple program is enough. You don’t need anything elaborate to cover elementary math well.
Writing
Writing at the elementary level means handwriting practice, copywork, and simple sentence composition. Keep it brief and regular — ten to twenty minutes most days. The goal in the early weeks is establishing the habit, not producing impressive output.
Step 5: Create a simple daily structure
A consistent daily sequence is more important than a detailed schedule. Decide what order subjects will happen in — reading first, then math, then writing or independent work — and hold to that sequence most mornings. Children settle into the day more easily when they know what comes next.
Total structured time for most elementary ages is one to three hours. Finish when the core subjects are done. There’s no need to fill the rest of the day with formal instruction.
For realistic examples of what daily structures look like at different ages — including sample schedules that actually hold up over time — the guide on homeschool schedule examples by age shows what a workable day looks like in practice.
Step 6: Start at your child’s actual level
One of the most valuable things you can do when transitioning from public school is establish where your child is actually working — not where their grade says they should be, but where their current skills genuinely place them.
Children who leave public school sometimes have gaps their grade level doesn’t reflect. They may have been passed along in a classroom while missing foundational skills that no one had time to address. Or they may be working ahead in some areas and behind in others. The grade label doesn’t tell you which is true.
Reading level is the most important thing to establish first. It determines how you structure reading instruction, what materials will work, and how much support your child needs across every subject that involves text. The guide on what reading level is appropriate for your child’s age gives you a clear baseline to work from.
Step 7: Ignore the school timeline
Once you’ve withdrawn from public school, the school’s calendar and curriculum sequence are no longer relevant to your child’s education. You don’t need to track what unit the class is on, stay aligned with the school’s pacing, or worry about what your child would be covering if they were still enrolled.
Your child’s progress is now measured against their own baseline, not against a classroom somewhere else. A child working at the right level and making steady forward movement is doing exactly what they should be doing — regardless of where that level sits relative to their former grade.
Releasing the school timeline is one of the most practically useful things you can do in the early months of homeschooling. It removes a source of anxiety that isn’t grounded in anything real about your child’s actual learning.
The transition to homeschooling is much smoother when you know exactly where your child is starting.
Find Your Child’s Reading LevelThe first month sets everything up
The first month of homeschooling is not about impressive academic output. It’s about establishing a routine, figuring out how your child learns at home, and building the daily habits that will carry the rest of the year.
Expect some adjustment. A child coming out of a structured school environment will need time to adapt to working one-on-one at home. Sessions may run shorter than you planned. Some resistance is normal. None of it means something is wrong.
Measure the first month by whether you showed up consistently — not by how much was covered. A family with a working daily routine at the end of week four has accomplished the most important thing. The curriculum, the pacing, the additional subjects — all of that becomes significantly easier once the foundation of consistent daily learning is in place.
Start simple. Stay consistent. Adjust from what you observe. That’s the whole process, and it works.